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Circus Post. Open letter from (Extrovert-Feeling) The Royal Circus. VIDEO (click for more...) April 16 2017, 1 Comment

"Hi from The Royal Circus! I love having fun as much as possible! We'd like you to know":

Observatory Post: Open letter from (Introvert-Thinking) The Royal Observatory VIDEO (click for more...) April 16 2017, 2 Comments

 

Video Below: On your door, put up your personalized "Welcome Banner" that has a list of how you like to be treated! 

From The Royal Observatory (Family of Introvert, from Thinking Side of Decision Drive)

Here's an "Open Letter" to all others not from our kingdom:

Hello from the quiet, intense side of Personality-Ville. We love living here, following our motto: Learn. We love to achieve great things, but really like to learn all there is to know. There are a few things we'd like others to know about us:

* We notice more than you know, we may just choose not to comment on everything.

* Our Energy Treasure Chests get filled up when we are alone. We like people, in fact we really enjoy a good one-to-one deep thoughtful conversation. That's why we really don't like small-talk, it seems disingenuous. (8 Energy Card)

* It would be nice when you ask questions, to pause, then let me speak. I like to think what I'm going to say, then speak. Thank you!

What else would YOU like others to know? Tell us in the Comments Section!

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#Introvert_Observatory    (Introvert-Thinking)

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Cottage Post. Open letter from (Introvert-Feeling) to others. VIDEO (click for more...) April 16 2017, 1 Comment

Here's an "Open Letter" to all others not from our kingdom:

Greetings from The Royal Cottage in Personality-Ville. We love living here where it is quiet and relaxing. In fact, that's our Motto: Relax. We want everyone to get along and be at peace. Conflict is really unheard of here.

Some of us have been the Royal Diplomat as we are peace-keepers. What we really hate is...change! Especially, fast change. Many of our mates and spouses are from the Family of Extrovert and they change plans all the time. It drives us nutty! Please, just simply asking us before hand if something is okay, and really willing to stop your wishes if we say, "No I really don't want to," is super appreciated!

Be kind to us. We are not you, we are not from your kingdom. Remember our speed limit is 40ish. We can be somewhat flexible, especially if you prefer it for a while. But don't ask us to go at your break-neck speed all the time. We simply do not have the natural reserves of energy that you might have. Also, keep in mind that when we are around a lot of people (and a lot, that could mean anywhere from 3 to 333+) this causes us to spend our precious Energy Coins. Ask us how much Energy Coins we have, and how much Energy would be spent by doing a certain activity.

Have a nice day!

#Personality_Ville

#Introvert_Cottage (Introvert-Feeling)

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Castle Post. Open letter to others. (from Extrovert-Thinkers) VIDEO (click for more...) April 16 2017, 0 Comments

Here's an "Open Letter" to all others not from our kingdom:

Greetings from the busy, important Royal Castle!

We get energy from being around people. If we want to know something, we will talk with anyone near by. We are fearless that way. If you are from another Personality-Ville Kingdom (like from The Introvert Family) you would never talk to someone unless it meant something. In our kingdom, this is not the case. It may even seem like we are flirting with you. Don't get confused--most of the time we are just being super open and maybe even sarcastically funny to everyone!

We love to accomplish as much as possible. We also love to solve problems, and we have the energy to do just that. We make fast decisions and kinda assume you would want to know the solution. Sometimes, we will forget to ask if you do want to know, so it may seem like we are a "know-it-all." We think it's not about us, it's about the solution. That comes from living on the Thinking Side of Decision Drive~we based things on facts. On the Feeling side, they might based a comment on how it might sound to others.

Because we go at such a fast pace, and sometimes we don't think before we speak, words just come out of our mouth~like a teenager! We don't like to hurt people's feelings, so if it sounded a little curt, just know most of the time our heart is in the right place! (This is the same as The Circus people, we share a Common Border with them as Extroverts.)

We are in a hurry! We like to accomplish as much as possible for as long as possible. Quantity is our goal! Achieve is our Motto. So please get to the bottom line, so we can save time. We are not into chit-chat. We are formal and quite private, unless it serves our goals; most things have to have a purpose.

If you want something done right away, call us. If are very busy, but most of the time, we can prioritize, delegate and somehow fit it all in. We do struggle with following the Four Motto Song: Relax, Learn, Achieve, Play, keeps your Dragons far away! We need someone strong to put their foot down and demand that we do others things than "Achieve" all the time. We will respect you for it (although we may grumble about it!)

Below: The 13 Clue Card from The Royal Castle

 

What else would YOU like others to know? Tell us in the Comments Section!

 

 

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#Extrovert_Castle  (Extrovert-Thinking)

 


What's Your Biggest Problem with Other Personality Kingdoms? May 12 2015, 68 Comments

What is your biggest pain when it comes to interacting with the other personality kingdoms? What do you wish you could shout to them? Examples: from the Introverts--"I wish they would just shut up, PAUSE, then let me speak!" The Extroverts--"I wish they would be a little more lively...sometimes I feel like I have to pull everything out of them."